The Montessori Method

At Friends-Montessori School our educational philosophy, ideas of child development, & method of instruction are based primarily on the ideas, theories, and observations of Maria Montessori; known as the Montessori Method.

Maria Montessori (1870-1952) was an Italian physician who achieved world-wide recognition for her theories on child development & progressive education during the first half of the 20th century. Her work & legacy live on through the schools formed based on her ideas & observations.

Montessori education stands apart from other progressive education models through the use of precisely created didactic instructional materials, independent work cycles instead of class periods, the cosmic curriculum, carefully prepared classroom environments, specially trained teachers, “guides,” that help each child recognize & follow their own inner teacher, & much more.

  • “As we observe children, we see the vitality of their spirit, the maximum effort put forth in all they do, the intuition, attention and focus they bring to all life’s events, and the sheer joy they experience in living.”

    Maria Montessori

  • “In the child is much knowledge, much wisdom. If we do not profit from it, it is only because of neglect on our part to become humble and to see the wonder of this soul and learn what the child can teach.”

    Maria Montessori

  • “Here is an essential principal of education: to teach details is to bring confusion; to establish the relationship between things is to bring knowledge.”

    Maria Montessori

  • “The child is both a hope and a promise for mankind.”

    Maria Montessori

  • Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "The greatest sign of success for a teacher is to be able to say, 'The children are now working as if I did not exist.'”

    -Maria Montessori

  • "Establishing peace is the work of education; all politics can do is keep us out of war."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "Children are human beings to whom respect is due, superior to us by reason of their innocence and of the greater possibilities of their future."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "To stimulate life, leaving it free, however, to unfold itself … that is the first duty of the educator."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "The essence of independence is to be able to do something for one’s self."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "It is true that we cannot make a genius. We can only give to each child the chance to fulfill his potential possibilities."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "We shall walk together on this path of life, for all things are part of the universe and are connected to each other to form one whole unity."

    -Maria Montessori

  • "To assist a child is to provide him with an environment that will enable him to develop freely."

    -Maria Montessori

Some Montessori Key Concepts

The Montessori Method and Quaker Values: A Natural Partnership

At Friends-Montessori School, the Montessori Method and Quaker values work hand in hand to create a learning environment rooted in respect, reflection, and community. Both traditions emphasize the inherent worth of each individual, the importance of peaceful collaboration, and the belief that children are capable of deep learning and personal growth when given the space to explore, reflect, and engage meaningfully with the world around them.

Respect for the Inner Light

Quakers believe that every person carries an inner light—a source of wisdom, truth, and goodness. Similarly, Montessori education is built on respect for the child, honoring their natural curiosity, individuality, and ability to guide their own learning. In a Montessori classroom, children are trusted to make choices, explore their interests, and develop independence, mirroring the Quaker belief that each person has the capacity for insight and growth.

A Community-Centered Approach

Both Montessori and Quaker education foster strong, supportive communities where every voice matters. Just as Quaker meetings operate on equality and consensus, Montessori classrooms function as collaborative spaces where children engage in cooperative learning, resolve conflicts peacefully, and practice grace and courtesy. Through shared responsibilities—such as caring for the classroom environment or participating in Meeting for Business—students develop a sense of stewardship and responsibility to their community.

Silence, Reflection, and Inner Discipline

Quaker practice embraces silence as a tool for deep listening and self-discovery, a value that is seamlessly reinforced in a Montessori setting. Montessori students learn to focus, work independently, and develop inner discipline, gaining the ability to self-regulate and engage thoughtfully with the world. Our Meeting for Worship provides students with an opportunity to center down, reflect, and connect—reinforcing both the peacefulness of Quaker practice and the mindfulness of Montessori learning.

Peace, Justice, and Social Responsibility

Both traditions emphasize peace education and the importance of acting with integrity. In a Montessori classroom, conflict resolution is approached with respectful dialogue and empathy, preparing students to be thoughtful, compassionate problem-solvers. Similarly, Quaker values call for truth, equality, and justice, encouraging children to speak up for what is right and contribute to a more peaceful world.

By integrating Montessori methods with Quaker principles, Friends-Montessori School nurtures independent thinkers, compassionate leaders, and engaged citizens who are equipped with the tools to navigate life with wisdom, kindness, and purpose.